WELCOME TO REFRESH MY HEART, A HEALING MINISTRY!
I AM DELIGHTED THAT YOU HAVE STOPPED BY.
I have a God-given passion to serve women who have found themselves in cycles of relationships that have left them broken hearted or even that one failed relationship that just keeps eating away at the heart. I too know very well what that feels like but more importantly I have experienced the joy of healing. My journey has led me to develop "Refresh My Heart.” This is a place of encouragement for those who may have just started the healing process, those on their healing journey or any who want to avoid the many pitfalls in relationships. It is my sincere desire to see women of all ages, races and backgrounds, be transformed, set free and refreshed through Christ!
My sweet sister, let me tell you, there are so many aspects of dealing with this heart of ours. And just when we think we have it down pat, we realize it is more to this heart than we know or can grasp in our own strength. Just know that you are not here by accident, neither are you here alone. You will get through this! Oh! And by the way, as you are refreshed, you will also be able to refresh others!
ABOUT
My name is Jacqueline, but you can call me Jacque! I am a wife, mother and mentor who finds great joy in refreshing others. As a registered nurse, I spent years assisting in the healing of the body. While I supported patients through physical recovery, I felt a spiritual calling to encourage the brokenhearted particularly those in intimate relationships who just can’t seem to move forward. I know it feels like the pain will never end and sometimes you may feel like you’re going to die but the pain WILL end, and you WILL live. I’ve been there more times than I want to admit but having experienced the joy of healing, I feel it is my mission to share the key to that joy with others. I healed and you can too.
In 2002 I became a widow with six children, five school-aged at home and one in college, after my husband passed away due to a car accident. God provided me with what I needed to raise my children and was always by my side. I knew that if marriage was in my future, I wanted to do it God’s way. Six years later I remarried a wonderful godly man, Regi, who loves me and my children. With our blended family, we have eleven children combined with two in heaven.
I can think of several refreshing things.
Sipping on a hot cup of lemon ginger tea with honey
Jumping into a pool on a hot summer day
Sitting on a porch swing, feeling the cool breeze blowing ever so gently on my face
These things are so refreshing to me. But what is more refreshing than ANYTHING is a soothing word to refresh my weary soul.
"If you haven’t gone through anything yet, just keep waking up in the morning."
We all need our hearts refreshed whether we want to admit it or not. God has sent refreshment through His Word and people who love Him. And yes! You guessed it! I am one of those people! I have great expectations and you should too that you will receive the refreshment your heart has been longing for. I will forewarn you; doubt will try to overtake what God wants to do in your life, telling you that things will never change. Sister, I encourage you to open your heart to receive the truth of God’s Word through these teachings and dismiss anything that will tell you otherwise. I’m in your corner!
May your heart always be REFRESHED!
Jacque
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I’ve Fallen in Love, but He’s Married!
Where do I go from here? In a culture where relationships are often defined by feelings rather than what's biblically right or wrong, it can be easy to convince ourselves that love puts the stamp of approval on any relationship including infidelity. Some of you may be saying, "Any Christian should know better than to become emotionally or intimately involved with someone who is married." But to know what is right and to do what is right are two different things. Once we allow our old sinful nature to take control, it doesn't take long until we find ourselves in a sinful situation that most often is difficult to get out of. We then start to justify our behavior with statements like, "Their marriage has been over," "He's only there for the kids” “He doesn’t love her anymore,” or a most memorable one I've heard is, " The Lord is working this out for the both of us to be together." Perhaps you've been told something on the lines of how unhappy and unfilled this man is and what his wife doesn't do, and all the negative things that is going on in the marriage and maybe you fell for it and now you're in love. This is not to bring shame on anyone but to help you recognize this type of relationship does not honor you and most importantly it does not honor God.
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Broken Heart Cycles: The strength to WAIT
The Heartbreak Cycle Heartbreak can be incredibly painful when a relationship comes to an end. We may feel sadness, anger, confusion, or rejection—especially when we are the ones left behind. No matter who chose to walk away, many believe the best way to heal is to keep moving and keep searching. We feel pressured to prove to ourselves—and to everyone else—that we can move on, still having what it takes to find someone new. Friends often try to comfort us by saying, “It’s okay, you’ll find someone else,” and sometimes offering unsolicited help in the search for the next relationship and before long, the cycle of going from one relationship to another continues—even when our hearts are still filled with pain. But rushing into the next relationship is not healthy for us or for the other person involved. We convince ourselves, “It will be better next time,” then the time after that, and the time after that, repeating the same cycle without ever pausing to truly examine where we are emotionally and, more importantly, our spiritual condition.
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Prayer: Why Does it Matter?
Prayer is usually only thought of when dealing with a serious situation like illness, divorce, loss, or death. In these times it is common for people to pray or others to offer prayers as a form of support. Phrases like, "Praying for you," "Sending prayers your way," and "I will keep you in my prayers," can bring comfort to the recipients, but it is important to consider the true significance behind them. Some individuals may say these phrases without fully grasping the meaning of prayer and may even doubt its effectiveness, viewing it merely as a superficial gesture. Sadly, many who identify as Christians do not believe in the power of prayer.
BOOKS
Study guides and journals to walk with you, one page at a time.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY
Real words from real women who found hope, forgiveness, and freedom through these teachings.
Using the tools from the study guide, 6 lessons to Heal a Broken Heart, I was able to forgive and walk in freedom and joy!
DORIS
These lessons were so convenient and applicable for me as a busy woman to complete in my quiet time. They really spoke to my heart.
ERICA
The videos along with the lessons allowed me to open my heart and mind to a sacred space where I was able to experience oneness with God.
NICOLE
I'M IN YOUR CORNER.
Whether you have a question about my study materials, want to share a testimony, or need someone to stand in faithful prayer with you, I am here to walk with you.
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
— Psalm 34:18